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This new man that I was complaining about...

Calls me "Dear" and pats me on the arm.

Ask me how much I want to smack him!!!

End of rant. :)

Date: 2005-10-27 10:54 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jmeadows.livejournal.com
"dear" is a long way from sexual harassment.

Sorry, "Dear" is indeed sexual harassment if the woman takes it the wrong way.

You know, it can suck because women have gotten men fired just because they didn't like them. Really, at most places, all a woman has to do is say, "he calls me dear in a very patronizing way," even if the guy is totally not doing it to be rude.

It can be unfair. No one is saying it isn't.

But that, at least in Texas, is the law. MOST women won't do that to someone. Most are like J and very wary about crying wolf when they're not sure.

"Dear" and "hun" and "darling" are still sexual harassment.

(BTW, either sign into livejournal or sign your name. Anonymous comments, especially on posts like this, are darn cowardous. Don't say it if you're afraid to attach your name to it.)

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